Ok. Today I will talk about an issue that I have consulted much e, and is very simple: how far in front of a woman to sell? That is, to what extent should I let you know how I am a man worth that I have a lot of qualities and advantages that make a good game or a good choice for her .
Well, here I give you some news: Most women are more interested in your qualities experience in listening to yourself. Also two interesting phenomena occur: the first is that women have a mistrust sensor installed in their brains that makes them doubt those who paint perfect panoramas (the evolution is responsible for this, because for women is more expensive than for a man to risk and this in terms of the species, because sex can mean that a pregnancy be responsible for at least 9 months this is the reason from our ancestors until now women preserve this mechanism of "mistrust"), and second that women prefer to discover for themselves the character traits I bserver a little mystery to feed ratio partner.
The truth is this: You earn more points if find more creative ways show, not tell, those things that make you valuable and unique. Here I give some tips for not fall into the trap of self-promoting yourself too:
1. Do not brag about your work : Women do not want to hear a lot about how much money you earn or multiple businesses that you and leave you high profits. Men overconfident of the material are usually lacking in emotional areas (including sexual), and for women it is an issue very clear. Overall look like insecure and that is exactly what material it provides the security you are trying to project. The idea is exhilarating win his affection and his heart showing how much you can enrich your life through the art of surprise. What you can do is get involved in your lifestyle so that she alone knows what material things you offer and that she draw their own conclusions, so do it bit by bit, not that your desire to attract Interested women who do not appreciate anything else other than your money. Women always appreciate the money, as this indicates ability to provide them in the future if there is a family, though not always looking for an idiot with money.
2. not tell about your character traits : Talk about your characteristics in a good mood athletics, political beliefs, work ethics, honesty, whatever does not produce the results you think. Your good qualities are definitely things to show, not tell. Do not boast a lot of things that later prove will cost, insurance happened to them who have tried to prove to another person how they can do something (on the computer, on the sports field, in the kitchen) and just when they are observed are unable to do, or do awkwardly. Well, that same happens when you talk a lot about their character traits, if you say you're very funny all of a sudden does not look so good humor and his skill level is too high. When you say things about your personality, you risk being tested to the extreme.
The idea is that it will gradually discovering your character and personality traits, she will see in the way you treat and how you relate to others, let her be the you say "go ... do not know you were so funny." Your true essence always be unveiled over time. If you have all she can think you're a person, not authentic.
3. not tell you how desirable women are : Showing sexual performance and how many women got behind you is a real repellent for women. On the one hand gives the impression that you are a player who walks up behind his ego with a woman on your list, you can show that you are selfish and that maybe you're not very connected with your feelings. Of course, there are some women who like to compete for the attention of men, but it would be a bit stupid of you to put in that position in an apparent and too fast. If you want to compete for you that she realizes how things are true.
Instead reflects your nature and your charisma in how you relate to women that she is herself, with their own eyes, you see how attractive you are (not you see you're a player). Something that will give you points is always present to the women you meet, whether ex-girlfriends or just friends. Remember that women are always watching and which often have sensors on his back for how you behave, so be not of those flirty or too exaggerated, be charming, but do it with the art of a magician subtly .
4. not tell you how good guy : If you're looking stabilize yourself and want to show a woman that you're thinking of a relationship long-term purpose or you are interested in forming a family, do not need to tell him. What we will achieve is that she thinks maybe you're too good, and not always get the message or intention you want to stabilize yourself, by contrast looks like you're trying to win her affection show "unlike the other bad guys the world and its past. " Believe me it is a fatal error.
If you want something serious just give to know the proximity talks, which speak of life project, future plans, possible children and stuff like that, have her formal plans where friends and family present
In conclusion, do not be one of those men who seek exclusive merchandise sold as art, do not try to win the affection or care of a woman that way. What this blog and I try to write here is that start believing in your own abilities to seduce and attract through your actions and your behavior . You should not look like someone trying to sell life insurance, you look like someone who simply as it is, do what you do and be and do things this way is attractive .
To start the hunt!
Until next time! ----------------------------
PD1. Our Facebook group " Strategy Naxos Seduction" continues to grow, and there are 12 topics and discussion where the community is participating with their views, experiences and knowledge. For those who have not been writing all they need is to open an account on Facebook and search for the name of the group, there were will our community. PD2
. If you're wondering why there is emphasis in different words in this post, the reason is that I'm using a new system of "hidden orders" in my writing. It is a strategy of NLP in which instructions included within a phrase in italics to go creating a program in your mind where you perceive the text with your hand while consciously perceive the marquee that I italicized through your unconscious. So I do a mighty work throughout your system, not only conscious but unconscious, so you can get to apply always what I write and you will not only be a rational or intellectual knowledge. Remember the first place you saw it was here!
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